Most of us who were 90’s teens remember Calvin. We watched Calvin grow over a few years as he progressed from a young kid looking forward to his new job at McDonald’s to ultimately working his way up to manager. When I ask, “Where is Calvin?” I am figuratively speaking.
My family and I had the opportunity to live in Japan for three years. What we were astonished to experience was how Japanese employees working at McDonalds had a great sense of pride in their job. Their uniforms were pristine, the restaurants were clean enough to eat off of the floor and most importantly they made their customers feel that they were so grateful to serve them. Oh, and did I mention that the burgers tasted far better than the restaurants in the U.S.? What’s wrong with this picture?
I remember when I was in high school, having any type of honest paying job was respectable for a teenager by adults as well as their peers. Today, working at some place like McDonalds is considered shameful and/or embarrassing. Teens have no sense of customer service, work atmosphere decorum or a sense of pride in their work. I see more gum smacking, cell phone using, pants sagging teenagers that could care less if they get your order right or who take their jobs seriously. Of course there are some teens who do not fit this category. Unfortunately, I can count on one hand how many I have run across in the last several years.
The Calvin commercials were a hopeful display of youth aspiring to be something and be somebody important. It signified a great pride in being productive and the aspiration to be greater than the present. I WANT CALVIN BACK to give our kids hope again and prayerfully inspire them to want something out of life and to take pride in small strides toward “that great life achievement” of being one’s best.
I want employers to have greater expectations of our kids regardless of where they work and challenge them to a greater standard than what we see today. I don’t care if you start off as a street sweeper or custodian, have a sense of pride in a job well done. Do your best and be your best — you never know who’s watching. You cannot allow them to come to work dressed inappropriately or talk to the customers any kind of way. Teach them recyclable skills that will help them grow and develop as a professional.
I got my first job at the age of 16 working at Lerners New York on Canal Street in New Orleans. I was the youngest employee in our store. My manager was Kim Joseph who is now deceased. When I worked at Lerners, Kim had no less expectation of me than she did our 60+ year old assistant manager who affectionately referred to me as “little one”. I had to pull my weight like everyone else. I had to come to work dressed properly. I had to show up on time. I was expected to deliver exceptional customer service. I learned so many valuable job skills that I still use today. That job inspired me to want to do something meaningful with my life. And it all started with a manager who use to drive me nuts by kicking my butt to do my best and I am forever grateful. While she died in her 30’s of cancer several years ago, I wish she could be alive today so that I could tell her a simple thank you. I would say to Kim Joseph, thank you for commanding nothing less than excellence from me and instilling in me actionable experience that allowed me many subsequent employment successes.
If we don’t have expectations of our youth today, there is no hope for a better tomorrow. We have to demand more of our youth so that they can make a significant mark on this world that will propel it and them forward. We should not allow there to be a constant maintenance of stagnation and ignorance in our youth that only leads to increased drop out rates, unwanted pregnancies, low wage jobs, public assistance and overpopulated prisons.
WILL THE CALVINS OF THE WORLD PLEASE STAND UP AND TAKE YOUR RIGHTFUL PLACE AMONGST THE STARS!!! Great things are in store when you do.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
It may not even be the employees to blame on this. McDonalds has created a way of working similar to working on an assembly line. It’s one of the easiest jobs out there because of the how predictability. Every burger or malt you drink a McDonalds tastes about the same nearly everywhere. McDonalds isn’t a fun place to work at because it’s repetitive work and there’s no true interaction. I read a book called McDonaldization of Society and this is where I learned most of this from.
McDonalds is a starting point in life, but it’s best to not stick around there for too long. That’s how I feel anyways.
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I think that the days of Calvin are long gone. The new group of young people in the workforce are far and away worse than ever and that is something that needs to be changed.
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Sarah,
Thank you for your comment. Let’s pray for better tomorrow for these kiddos that they will wise up and get a clue. Please continue to follow me at http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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Wow! Shannon, I haven’t thought about Calvin in ages. What a great retrospective for today. I don’t eat at McDonalds anymore, but I was just recently in a Qdoba thinking the same thing. The kids behind the counter could not possibly care less or take less pride in the job. Very sad. You make a good point, though: It’s up to the employers to give them a reason to be proud and hold them accountable for their attitudes and actions.
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Annie,
Absolutely!!! Once both parents/caregivers and employers begin to hold these kids accountable and to a professional standard, this is how they will learn and grow. This will also motivate them to want to be someone and contribute great things to their environment. Thank you very much for your comment and please continue to follow me at http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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I do not think it is just an issue with the youth of America, it is a collective problem. For so long we stigmatized certain jobs as being for the less fortunate and those with limited to no education. In our current economy people do not want to be further isolated for taking on a position that does not represent their social status.
I started my first job babysitting in my early teens. I then went on to have numerous jobs that I despised before finding something I could tolerate. While in university I attempted to take on passion projects while I could knowing that I would eventually have to come back to reality and take on a typical 9-5. As a late 20 something, I have been fortunate enough to continue working on a career that is my passion. I did not get here by sitting idly, it was exhausting and hard work.
We need to place value back into all work and not just some chosen careers.
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Jennie,
You make a very interesting point. That is indeed part of the problem. We have to train our young ones to take pride in any job they do regardless of whether they are at the bottom of the totem pole or have reached their highest level of promotion. I appreciate your comment and thank you for following http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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I couldn’t agree more!!!! I cringe every time I talk to a young person who’s too fragile to work.
When I was 14 I babysat. When I was 16, I made minimum wage, working in a fast food restaurant and then in a grocery store. I went to school during the day and worked at night. I worked most Saturdays and Sundays.
When I was 18, I went to a community college and worked 3 jobs – third shift at a grocery store, nights waiting tables and between classes as a tutor.
It was hard. It was exhausting. I hated some of my jobs over the years…but I worked my tail off and I came through it stronger and more prepared. I appreciate what I’ve worked for and where I am in life. And my work ethic has helped propel my career.
I don’t necessarily think that everyone should go through my experience but I do believe that some parents rob their children of the opportunity to develop important skills and traits by coddling them.
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You hit the nail on the head, Marilee…parents are coddling their children far too much and allowing them to get away with things that they would have never had subjected their parents to. I understand they want the best for their children but you are depriving them of the ability to make decisions and access opportunities for themselves. Cut the cord already.
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I agree with both of you ladies. I deal with it with my own children who at times act as though they are too fragile to work I did when I was half their age. We as parents, educators and employers alike have to train these children up for the real world and allow them to get their hands dirty so that they will appreciate what they have and continually strive for better. Thank you both for commenting and for following http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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I agree with Sandra! You have to do what you have to do in order survive.
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Indeed Mike!!!! Let’s pray these young people will take heed and do positive things that will encourage growth and development instead of stagnation. Thank you for your comment and for following http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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Yes!!!! I worked at Lerner when I was 18.. worked my way up to a key holder. Started working at the age of 15, and yes you are so right.. WAY more was expected of us then. I have found that it is now up to me and my ‘village’ to show my daughters what it means to “value your work”. I’m in awe most of the time when I see how things have turned out for our youth when it comes to the work force. I remember Calvin well.. lol.. It’s funny cuz back then you could tell who would make it based on their views of this young man. I believe there is hope. It is now up to us, as parents, to show the TRUTH behind what it really means to have a passion for your work. We set the example with our actions.. no longer do words work.. simple as that. Love this post.. it actually gives me hope and helps me to keep smiling
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Sgordon394,
Small world!! My Lerners experience was the best ever and should be credited with my growth and ambition for doing great things. Thank you very much for your comments and you could not be more correct. Thank you for following http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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AMEN! I totally agree. I had this conversation with my brother recently. I didn’t want to take a job at a fast food place even though he had been out of work for some time. I was shocked.
There is NO shame in doing an honest days work for an honest days pay.
You never know what future opportunities that job may provide. I try and give 100% to everything that I do, no matter how big or how small.
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Yes Sandra, I see it everywhere. What is amazing is how easy of a decision it is to live off of other people and decide to not take certain jobs because they are considered beneath the freeloader’s standards. I always say that you make the job and not the job making you. As long as it is honest and legal it is completely respectable service. Thank you for your comment and for following http://www.ShannonAyersSpeaks.com.
Blessings and Inspiration,
Shannon Ayers Speaks
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Our youth lost the moral and work values
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