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THE REAL SCANDAL

22 Tuesday Apr 2014

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#Determination, #Encouragement, #Scandal, #ShannonAyersSpeaks, #Television

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Those who watch SCANDAL, especially women, can’t help but to admire Olivia Pope’s wardrobe, hair and resourceful use of business savvy and Public Relations tactics to spin positive on her client’s livelihood.  While anyone can do without the drama that comes with that territory, it is most certainly a fascinating TV life of indulgence to which many escape for about 45 minutes.

Question!  Does it ever get tiring living vicariously through the drama surrounding fictional characters when your own life is wasting by the wayside?  What have you done to jumpstart your career?  What have you done to jumpstart a healthier lifestyle?  What have you done to educate your way into a future that is rewarding both financially and mentally stimulating?

The real SCANDAL is the lie you constantly tell yourself, I WILL…TOMORROW!

SCANDAL is loosely based on the life of a real person who was so great at her job that it inspired someone else to a career far beyond her imagination.  Who do you inspire?  Judy Smith is the former lawyer and deputy press secretary of President George H. W. Bush.  She successfully represented the likes of Kobe Bryant, Michael Vick and Monica Lewinsky in addition to several other high profile clients who were embroiled in SCANDALS of their own.  Smith continues to run her own crisis management firm in Washington D.C. and is also currently serving as co-executive producer to the SCANDAL television show.

There are many Judy Smiths in the world who enjoy or have enjoyed successful careers that parlayed into inspiration that allowed others to be great.  The beauty of this is that greatness can and should be a trickle-down effect that encourages someone else to shoot for the moon.

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As my aunt would say, “GET UP OFF OF YOUR DO-NOTHING” and go after your dreams instead of watching someone fulfill theirs on television.  It is time to take that course, get that certification, invest in that business, etc.   Whatever it is, it’s time for you to get yours.  But remember, the most important aspect of your dreams is that they are guided by God’s will for your life.  Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven and all these things will be added unto you.  It’s time!  What are you waiting for?  Let the next episode be your life going in a forward trajectory of success and purpose.  Stop the SCANDAL now and live your dreams.  What do you have to lose?  Don’t worry, Olivia Pope is not going any where any time soon.

Blessings and Inspiration,

Shannon Ayers Speaks

 

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ARE YOU A GLADIATOR?

21 Monday Apr 2014

Posted by shannonayersspeaks in Inspiration

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#Determination, #Gladiator, #Scandal, #ShannonAyersSpeaks, #StarManagementConsulting

Most in present day associate the term “GLADIATOR” with Shonda Rhimes’ hit television show, Scandal. Many are referring to themselves as GLADIATORS all over Facebook and Twittersville, especially on Thursdays.  Who didn’t buy into the speech Harrison gave Quin? But are you really a GLADIATOR?

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History tells us that GLADIATORS were used for sport by the Roman Empire engaging in arena combat with other GLADIATORS. More noteworthy, while a GLADIATOR’s status was considered less desirable, their unyielding spirit of fighting to the bitter end was an awe-inspiring gesture of audacity and triumph. When we think of a gladiator, we think of a beast of burden who has the fortitude, iron will and tenacity to remain an effervescent symbol of resilience and determination in combat to the death.

A GLADIATOR is a powerful representation of what most of us would hope to be and others dare to consider themselves worthy of comparison.

So I ask….

Are you a GLADIATOR?

Are you willing to fight for what you want in this life?

Are you willing to fight for your dreams and goals you set long before disappointment became your foe?

Are you willing to stand up for what you know is right and true in spite of consequences?

Are you willing to fight for the love that once permeated your heart before scorn became a dominant inhabitation?

Are you willing to step out on faith and believe in the talents and abilities God placed within you to plow through adversity, interference and interruption in your life in effort to prohibit a dream to be fulfilled?

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What say you…are you a GLADIATOR? I dare you to defy the odds of societal parameters and say…I am a GLADIATOR destined for success, settling for nothing less than what God intended — living a life that is pleasing to Him and before Him!! I will fight to the death against the adversities of this life that resolve to hold me hostage to my fleshly limitations. “We are more than conquerors through Him that love us!”

Blessings and Inspiration,

Shannon Ayers Speaks

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SISTERHOOD ENCOURAGEMENT 101

10 Thursday Apr 2014

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#Encouragement, #ShannonAyersSpeaks, #StandUpSistah, #StarManagementConsulting, #Women

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To Every Woman — Know Your Worth And Value!

I encourage you this day to toss out the notion that:

  • you are less because “He” dumped you or cheated on you or tells you your nothing
  • you are less because “She” flaunts her body in front of you making you think that because you’re over weight you aren’t beautiful
  • the texture or length of your hair makes you less attractive
  • your skin color makes you less appealing
  • your pedigree is less than Park Avenue or Lakeshore Drive because you came from the streets, projects, trailers, foster care or no formal education
  • you are less than a woman because you had a mastectomy, hysterectomy, miscarriage or are infertile
  • you are less because mama wasn’t there or daddy wasn’t there thinking you belong to no one
  • you are not worth loving because “Friend girl” did not support you, talked about you, lied on you
  • because “He” beats on you or verbally abuses you that you’re worthless
  • that because your loved ones passed on that you’re alone because you’re not

shebelievedPlease know that God designed us as women and that he loves us unconditionally. We don’t all fit the mold of the ladies in the magazines or on tv. Some of us around “that time of the month” began to feel depressed and reflect on hurt and pain that has happened to us before or is happening right now. Or we look in the mirror and don’t like what we see and feel hopeless. Some of us walk around with a smile on our face but with tears in our hearts behind closed doors. I want you to know that you are greater than your circumstance. Stand UP “My Ladies” and know your worth. Stand up “My Ladies” and know who you are and whose you are. Stand UP and encourage one another and do not tear each other down.

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Why do I write this today, because in my own reflection of looking over the years from grade school until now, I just remembered the hurt and pain that I carried for years that I did not share. I remembered what it was like to have a smile on my face when I was truly hurting inside. I remembered what it was like to be cheated on, backbitten, talked about and belittled. There are still some today that want to see me fail to remedy their pain and misfortune. But when I look at my life now, I have a faithful, loving, handsome man of God who loves me like no other. I have four beautiful children that remind me everyday just how blessed I am. If you want to know how that should encourage you…I once was that little girl trapped in an adult body who thought she was worthless because of what others said or did. And now I know that I am worth the love I receive and those around me are worth the love I give. I don’t need a husband or children to know I am blessed. I am blessed because God ordained it to be so and I choose to step in it and receive it in Jesus’ Name. I dare you to Stand UP and love yourself enough to know your worth.

Here's to good women

My Ladies, Stand UP and make your presence known that you are worthy to be loved and cherished. But it starts with you looking in the mirror and convincing that woman you see to…….STAND UP!!!!!!

Blessings and Inspiration,

Shannon Ayers Speaks

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Whatever Happened To Calvin?

08 Tuesday Apr 2014

Posted by shannonayersspeaks in Career, Inspiration

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#Job, #McDonalds, #ShannonAyersSpeaks, #StarManagementConsulting, #Youth

Most of us who were 90’s teens remember Calvin. We watched Calvin grow over a few years as he progressed from a young kid looking forward to his new job at McDonald’s to ultimately working his way up to manager. When I ask, “Where is Calvin?” I am figuratively speaking.

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My family and I had the opportunity to live in Japan for three years. What we were astonished to experience was how Japanese employees working at McDonalds had a great sense of pride in their job. Their uniforms were pristine, the restaurants were clean enough to eat off of the floor and most importantly they made their customers feel that they were so grateful to serve them. Oh, and did I mention that the burgers tasted far better than the restaurants in the U.S.? What’s wrong with this picture?

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I remember when I was in high school, having any type of honest paying job was respectable for a teenager by adults as well as their peers. Today, working at some place like McDonalds is considered shameful and/or embarrassing. Teens have no sense of customer service, work atmosphere decorum or a sense of pride in their work. I see more gum smacking, cell phone using, pants sagging teenagers that could care less if they get your order right or who take their jobs seriously. Of course there are some teens who do not fit this category. Unfortunately, I can count on one hand how many I have run across in the last several years.

The Calvin commercials were a hopeful display of youth aspiring to be something and be somebody important. It signified a great pride in being productive and the aspiration to be greater than the present. I WANT CALVIN BACK to give our kids hope again and prayerfully inspire them to want something out of life and to take pride in small strides toward “that great life achievement” of being one’s best.

I want employers to have greater expectations of our kids regardless of where they work and challenge them to a greater standard than what we see today. I don’t care if you start off as a street sweeper or custodian, have a sense of pride in a job well done. Do your best and be your best — you never know who’s watching. You cannot allow them to come to work dressed inappropriately or talk to the customers any kind of way.  Teach them recyclable skills that will help them grow and develop as a professional.

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I got my first job at the age of 16 working at Lerners New York on Canal Street in New Orleans. I was the youngest employee in our store. My manager was Kim Joseph who is now deceased. When I worked at Lerners, Kim had no less expectation of me than she did our 60+ year old assistant manager who affectionately referred to me as “little one”. I had to pull my weight like everyone else. I had to come to work dressed properly. I had to show up on time. I was expected to deliver exceptional customer service. I learned so many valuable job skills that I still use today. That job inspired me to want to do something meaningful with my life. And it all started with a manager who use to drive me nuts by kicking my butt to do my best and I am forever grateful. While she died in her 30’s of cancer several years ago, I wish she could be alive today so that I could tell her a simple thank you. I would say to Kim Joseph, thank you for commanding nothing less than excellence from me and instilling in me actionable experience that allowed me many subsequent employment successes.

If we don’t have expectations of our youth today, there is no hope for a better tomorrow. We have to demand more of our youth so that they can make a significant mark on this world that will propel it and them forward. We should not allow there to be a constant maintenance of stagnation and ignorance in our youth that only leads to increased drop out rates, unwanted pregnancies, low wage jobs, public assistance and overpopulated prisons.

WILL THE CALVINS OF THE WORLD PLEASE STAND UP AND TAKE YOUR RIGHTFUL PLACE AMONGST THE STARS!!! Great things are in store when you do.

Blessings and Inspiration,

Shannon Ayers Speaks

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Child Missing

01 Tuesday Apr 2014

Posted by shannonayersspeaks in Inspiration

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Most of us see pictures floating around on Facebook posted of missing children.  As part of the search effort, those pictures are typically accompanied with a request to help get the word out by sharing the post.  My heart aches everytime I see some beautiful face that has been separated from their loved ones.   Like most, I share the photo on my timeline, say a quick prayer and then move on to another interest.

On last Saturday, I received the news that my nephew had been missing for well over 24 hours since the Friday before.  My heart felt like it stopped and I froze in a state of shock.  It is one thing to pass on someone else’s photo that I don’t know, but it is altogether different when it hits so close to home.  All sorts of thoughts were running through my mind of the awful things that cruel people do to little children.  I love my nephew just as much as I love my own children.  I have seen him grow from a tiny baby to a handsome young man who is now 14 years old and he’s missing.  Apparently, he had gotten into some trouble with his parents due to disobedience and took off.  By the grace of God we received the news that he was found.  His parents picked him up and we all cried and were so relieved that he was okay.

Below you will read his own account of what he experienced while wandering the streets at night all alone.  It is my hope that you will share his experience with your kids as a teaching tool to keep them safe from harm’s way.  I shared this experience with my kids which also opened the door to a broader discussion about what they experience as kids and pre-teens.  I felt it important for them to understand that I have had the same thoughts, feelings and experiences when I was their age.  I know all to well what it is like to want to experience life contrary to what I was taught and how I was raised.  At the end of the our conversation, I left them with a few thoughts:  First and foremost, they are loved no matter what; Secondly, to take full responsiblity of their actions and consequences thereof; Lastly, they have to understand how the consquences of their actions effect their loved ones.  I would  love to hear your thoughts!!!

Blessings and Inspiration,

Shannon Ayers Speaks

In his own words:

I will like to thank everyone for your prayers and support. I apologize for the pain I have caused you to endure for the past few days, please accept my humble,sincere apologies I am thankful to GOD that I was kept safe while I was walking the streets. Here is a timeline of what I was doing while I was out.
I walked to Tutt Middle School, then to a gas …station, next i walked to my old neighborhood in Harrisburg, which was not the safest place to be at night, next while walking to University Hospital I declined a ride from a stranger, next I walked from University Hospital to MCG Hospital and watched some workers up until i heard the birds next I walked back to Harrisburg and talked to my old neighbors next while I was trying to find my siblings school I was asked by a man who was blowing leaves, what I was doing and he told me to be safe, since i could not find my siblings school I decided to walk to the library while at the library i dozed off while Reading a book once I woke up I walked back to Harrisburg and to my old high school where I saw a family friend next I went to a barbershop with my old neighbors after I left there I stayed at my old neighbor’s house until my parents came and picked me up. All together I walked for a total of 15+ miles. The whole time while I was out I was thinking about what I had done wrong when I was at home.
What I have learned from this experience is that I have put my family and family friends through a lot of unnecessary pain and suffering. I also realize that I have a family that cares about me and who also loves me and that I need to appreciate what they do for me and how they bring me up. I learned that I need to face my problems instead of trying to ignore them.

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